Friends

Some young people struggle to make friends. Some even say that they are complete failure at friendship. But what are real friends? And how can we make them?

Some  says, “A friend is loving at all times and becomes a brother in times of trouble.” You must know that there is more to friendship than having a shoulder to cry on. A real friend, if they see you going the wrong way, he or she will try to warn you before it’s too late – even if they know you may not like what they say.

Another says: “There is more trust to be put in bruises from one who loves them in effusive kisses from one who hates.” A real friend is someone who thinks straight and talks straight, that is the kind of friend you should be.

Finding Real Friends?

Where can you find friends who love God? Within the church of course! Look out for youth who do not only profess their faith but also have good works to back up their faith and devotion. 

How, then, can you get friendship started?

1. Show an active interest in others.

Having genuine interest in others is the first step towards making friends. Get to know their name. Others are thrilled that you cared enough to remember their name. This act alone can make them want to share some experience or problem with you and the friendship starts to build.

You do not necessarily have to be an extrovert. It is sincere interest in others that attracts them. Often the simplest things, such as sharing a meal together or assisting someone with a task, can serve to deepen a friendship.